formal evening dress: vest or no?

[Semiomniscient]

I believe a "ruche" is just a type of knot that is tied on an Ascot cravat and, as with any longer tie, looks better tucked into a higher cut waistcoat. Regardless of what you call it, the general opinion seems to be that it isn't up to snuff for traditional Highland formal. More like alternative/creative formal or perhaps a trend? Here is a slightly less scrunchy, black ruche that might be less objectionable though probably still won't pass muster around here:

With this I must disagree. Cravats can certainly be worn with Highland attire and while they have generally fallen out of favor to the likes of the necktie and the bowtie, they are still perfectly acceptable and are gaining more favor. Now I can agree that it they may not be considered "classic" but they do harken back to an older style, much as the jabot does. Besides, if I'm not mistaken, I've seen jabots worn with a cravat (but I may be wrong, and this wasn't with Highland attire.) Anyway, I think that cravats are well within the spirit of traditional highland attire, whether or not it has fallen out of favor and general use.

[Brian K]

With this I must disagree. Cravats can certainly be worn with Highland attire and while they have generally fallen out of favor to the likes of the necktie and the bowtie, they are still perfectly acceptable and are gaining more favor. Now I can agree that it they may not be considered "classic" but they do harken back to an older style, much as the jabot does. Besides, if I'm not mistaken, I've seen jabots worn with a cravat (but I may be wrong, and this wasn't with Highland attire.) Anyway, I think that cravats are well within the spirit of traditional highland attire, whether or not it has fallen out of favor and general use.

I agree that a cravat can be worn with Highland attire, but the more traditional ways of tying or securing it look best. The ruche knot seems to be a modern innovation used mainly by hire shops. I think it looks like you're trying to hard. I also think it looks a bit sloppy. Of course, since it seems mainly used to illustrate items in the hire trade it screams "I just rented this crap!" to me.

In any event, if you like it and have the opportunity to wear it, I say go ahead. I'm more than twice your age and that probably influences my opinion. Of course I've never really liked larger knots - a good old-fashioned four-in-hand is fine by me. I avoid buying any of the various forms of spread collar shirts just so I don't have to use a Windsor or half-Windsor knot. It probably didn't help that my stepfather used to tie his ties with knots the size of tennis balls. I used to try to talk him out of it, but Dad is a stubborn sort and, well... At present he almost never wears a tie and, while I wish he'd wear one to Lodge or to weddings or funerals, frankly, it's an improvement.

Regards,

Brian

[Semiomniscient]

I agree that a cravat can be worn with Highland attire, but the more traditional ways of tying or securing it look best. The ruche knot seems to be a modern innovation used mainly by hire shops. I think it looks like you're trying to hard. I also think it looks a bit sloppy. Of course, since it seems mainly used to illustrate items in the hire trade it screams "I just rented this crap!" to me.

In any event, if you like it and have the opportunity to wear it, I say go ahead. I'm more than twice your age and that probably influences my opinion. Of course I've never really liked larger knots - a good old-fashioned four-in-hand is fine by me. I avoid buying any of the various forms of spread collar shirts just so I don't have to use a Windsor or half-Windsor knot. It probably didn't help that my stepfather used to tie his ties with knots the size of tennis balls. I used to try to talk him out of it, but Dad is a stubborn sort and, well... At present he almost never wears a tie and, while I wish he'd wear one to Lodge or to weddings or funerals, frankly, it's an improvement.

Regards,

Brian

Oh don't get me wrong, I don't like the rusche knot and it looks sloppy to me. I too use the four-in-hand knot for regular ties and avoid too-big knots that are trendy these days.
I'm advocating for a good conservative cravat. That's all. :-)

[CMcG]

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I'm advocating for a good conservative cravat. That's all. :-)

Sounds interesting... I'll bite. Do you have a picture of such a cravat worn in formal style with a PC (or near equivalent)?

I've seen a couple members of the rabble wear pinned cravats (not sure of the proper name?) but more with Argyll or Sheriffmuir jackets. Looks good to me! Though it's a different cut of jacket than the subject of this thread, I'll post them anyway

Paul:


Matt:

[Brian K]

Oh don't get me wrong, I don't like the rusche knot and it looks sloppy to me. I too use the four-in-hand knot for regular ties and avoid too-big knots that are trendy these days.
I'm advocating for a good conservative cravat. That's all. :-)

OK, Jamie. I thought you were sticking up for the ruche knot. I'm glad to see you're more sensible than that .

Matt Newsome has posted some pictures of himself somewhere in the forum wearing cravats and I think it's a nice alternative look for kilt wear.

Regards,

Brian

PS - I see CMcG beat me to the punch. While Matt Looks splendid I do like the fact that Paul is wearing a tartan vest - it helps the outfit and makes the cravat stand out better. The all black look Matt is sporting is sharp, but also a bit severe. Breaking it up a bit with a contrasting or coordinated vest or a different color cravat might pick it up a bit more.

[fluter]

OK, Jamie. I thought you were sticking up for the ruche knot. I'm glad to see you're more sensible than that .

Gentlemen, the nicely ironic feature of this exchange is that the ruche is tied with ... wait for it ... a four-in-hand knot! :ootd: