Advice for men about to be married

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and LISTEN to her.

just imagine a question like: "do i look fat in this?" and you say "yeas dear"

I always tell my wife the truth. If she looks fat, I tell her, if she looks ugly, I tell her, if she looks hot, I tell her. I've never understood why some guys would let their wife go out in public looking like crap.

On the other hand, I'll never understand all this best friend crap and love. I "love" two people in the world, and those are my kids. I really dig my wife, but in the grand scheme of things, I probably wouldn't "die" for her (if someone had a gun and said I'll shoot you or your wife, you decide). As she would say, I am heartless and emotionless.

To the person that said all that stuff about guys not changing and girls changing, was right on the mark.

Just a side note, we were married 8 years ago while she was three months pregnant.