Agree with the thread, flashes more towards the front. As for the balmoral, it goes well with casual and other more formal events. I would tie the ribbons, but that is just opinion. You can leave it the way you prefer, if you prefer the tied look, stitch it in place to avoid having to constantly adjust the bow.
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