To be blunt and to the point, Im a big fat guy. Im getting my first cilt for my birthday and was wondering where it should ride. Ive seen where they ride up around the belly button but the way i wear my pants is under my gut, thats whats comfortable for me. When taking measurments,should i measure where the waistband of my pants ride or around the belly button?? Im having an x cilt made if that makes a difference. Thanx all for the warm welcome.