thank you all for the advise. I do not wish to stand out, or draw attention to my self. I had the same conversation with my wife last night, she said to wear it. I would like to have a darker jacket and black sporran, but alas i dont not own those items at the time being. A white shirt and dark tie, that i have. Gene knows me as kilt wearer, took the pot shots at a guy in kilt as any friend would. My last desire would be to disrespect the family. Thank you for the outfit advice. Now the decision