Quote Originally Posted by Kilted Rogue View Post
My best friend is about to loose her father due to cancer. So when i say i am planning to go to a funeral soon, its not light hearted. As most of my dress clothes have given way to kilt wearing, I have an outfit in mind for the day but i wanted to make sure its appropriate

Please excuse the grin, its was a good day when i snapped the shot
As we will be outside i most likely will add a Balmoral

I wonder if it would be possible to find out the gentleman's own wishes, if it is not too late? If I read your post correctly he has not yet passed away and may yet be able to communicate, depending on his condition.