There are two types of people who go to funerals.

The supporters - 'the shoulder to cry on' and the mourners, those who are grieving.

If you are a supporter, wear something unobtrusive and stay in the background.

If you are going as a mourner, why should it be assumed that your grief is any less than anybody else's.

Remember that funerals are not for the dead; they are for those that are left behind. They are part of the grieving process.

Go with your heart.

Regards

Chas