Of course you have to have considerable input. The concept that's being expressed is that much of the window-dressing is feminine, and most fellows just say "Sure, Babe. Whatever you want on that!"
For my own wedding, I made my own decision on my tux... and discussed it with my wife. I also asked her not to put her hair "up" as was the fashion of the day, because I so love it down, and she did that for me. I did much for her too, but the choice of bows and candles to decorate the church? Give me a break. That's just not "guy stuff" to me anyway.
Rev'd Father Bill White: Mostly retired Parish Priest & former Elementary Headmaster. Lover of God, dogs, most people, joy, tradition, humour & clarity. Legion Padre, theologian, teacher, philosopher, linguist, encourager of hearts & souls & a firm believer in dignity, decency, & duty. A proud Canadian Sinclair with solid Welsh and other heritage.
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