Quote Originally Posted by Ugly Bear

And yet you have posted some pictures of yourself in a kilt. Has she seen you in that one? If not, why not?

If she absolutely won't come around, or spits out the word "crossdressing," I say give in. Give up the kilt entirely. And then go through her wardrobe and hide all her pants. Hey, she's the one insisting on orthodoxy in clothing, and all's fair ...
No, she hasn't see that one either. I was waiting until the "better" one was on the way before I told her.

I don't think confontational is the way to go, I think it will just drive her farther away.

Fortunately we have a mutual friend (woman) that seems very supportive. Her grandfather had a kilt and she said it will remind her of him. I hoping she'll help convince my wife to embrace the kilt.
Btw, her maiden name is Sutherland, now there's a good Scottish name

Hopefully all will smooth out over time.

dana