I have never personally run into any kilt snobs. People look at you in a kilt and generally have very little knowledge of the fabric, weight, yardage, pleat set, whatever. They just see a good looking man in a kilt. So, if money is an issue I would say that th SWK Economy would be fine or many of the other suggestions here. I've worn an SWK Economy, standard and a tank to various occasions and other than other kilted friends, nobody knows the difference.

Congrats on the wedding.