As Big Mikey said, with patients she may not become supportive, but at least maybe she will become accepting, and in my case I should add "on occation".

My wife does not mind me wearing them unless I am with her. I have switched to suits & silk shirts anytime we go out together. She does not like that either. Since becoming a kilt wearer I take more pride in me appearance.

Good luck with it. This is a tough one.