Appropriety? (funeral)

[O'Callaghan]

To sum up then, your kilt should be either plain black, or something dark, or related to the deceased in some way. I don't see how anyone could disagree with that, and that's mostly based on the advice of our Scottish members. That even allows for the case where you have a rather loud tartan in common with the deceased, whether the deceased ever wore it or not.

[JSFMACLJR]

To sum up then, your kilt should be either plain black, or something dark, or related to the deceased in some way. I don't see how anyone could disagree with that, and that's mostly based on the advice of our Scottish members. That even allows for the case where you have a rather loud tartan in common with the deceased, whether the deceased ever wore it or not.

I'm not so certain everybody agrees with you here, with regard to wearing a "plain black (kilt), or something dark, or related to the deceased." I certainly would not wear a black kilt! Don't even own one, and until not too long ago didn't know they even existed! As Jock Scot pointed out, at the funeral of the late Chief of the MacLeods, there certainly were some loud tartans in the crowd. Same at the funeral of the late Livingstone of Bachuil, and of Cameron of Lochiel. At the burial of my father I chose to wear the MacLean hunting tartan, not because it was "dark" or sombre, but because it was a daytime event and I usually wear that tartan during the day. Others in the family wore the red MacLean tartan. No big deal. Some clans do not have a darker tartan to choose from. Surely this cannot be faulted! I find this talk of wearing a black kilt all rather macabre and bordering on fantasy. One wears one's tartan, no? (okay, I know many of you don't adhere to this...but please see my point!)

[McMurdo]

I'm not so certain everybody agrees with you here, with regard to wearing a "plain black (kilt), or something dark, or related to the deceased." I certainly would not wear a black kilt! Don't even own one, and until not too long ago didn't know they even existed! As Jock Scot pointed out, at the funeral of the late Chief of the MacLeods, there certainly were some loud tartans in the crowd. Same at the funeral of the late Livingstone of Bachuil, and of Cameron of Lochiel. At the burial of my father I chose to wear the MacLean hunting tartan, not because it was "dark" or sombre, but because it was a daytime event and I usually wear that tartan during the day. Others in the family wore the red MacLean tartan. No big deal. Some clans do not have a darker tartan to choose from. Surely this cannot be faulted! I find this talk of wearing a black kilt all rather macabre and bordering on fantasy. One wears one's tartan, no? (okay, I know many of you don't adhere to this...but please see my point!)

Sandford
I absolutely agree. While I regularly wear tartans other than one of my Clan tartans, the last funeral I attended I did so in my Clan Tartan, and will do so in future, in my view one can never go wrong in their Clan Tartan.