There are very few places I feel "safe" 1) was on the Maori marae with my fellow "cossie's" 2) At a ren faire in garb with fellow rennies. 3) Here with the other kilted people.

The closest I can call it is the whanu, family, clan .... you may not be blood but you might as well be.

It doesn't matter that I'm a girl. I can ask questions and not feel foolish about it. I want to make my rogue look good. Who else would I ask these questions to? just my 2 pence.