Quote Originally Posted by Aldisimo View Post
To me, what's offensive or embarrassing is the way people act rather than how they look. Treating yourself and others with kindness and acceptance is what's important--not whether you have fat or scars or no tan. YMMV.


Personally, I find a man who's a bit "flabby" and who is comfortable in his own skin to be more attractive, much more than I do someone who is "athletic & toned". Give me 'down to earth & flabby' over 'rock hard abs' any day!

Of course, finding a man who can accept a gal who is a bit flabby as well is even more difficult!

Kudos to you lads who can do what makes you comfortable!

B.