Black tie question

[davidlpope]

I am officiating a wedding in June, and it is black tie formal...All the men will be in coat tails, and I will be the only kilted person there.

Have you considered wearing a robe/ vestments and clerical collar? That would seem (to me) to be most fitting for the officiant at a formal wedding.

I don't think I've ever seen an officiant wearing lay "black tie" attire.

Have the bride and groom specifically asked you to wear highland attire for their wedding? If so, disregard the above and just do as they request...


Cordially,

David