I'm just ticked off

[Schiehallion]

I think you got it in one !

"She did not continue her attack because of the lack of audience."

Some people like to seek attention.... as they have no individuality about them to be noticed!

[cessna152towser]

I guess the lady got her come uppance when she saw you later in the restaurant with your fiancee and realised she could not have you the handsome kiltie as her partner. Sometimes jealous women can be really bitter and twisted, its my guess that's what's truly behind her accusation of cross dressing. I wouldn't let it bother you.

[McClef]

I was once accused of being "dressed like a woman" in Pontypool market.

I replied "Madam you are in trousers so clearly I cannot be dressed like a woman!"

[MacBean]

Well lass, I keep my bagpipes well hidden, but if you're good, I'll let you blow them.

[RockyR]

Her comment: "So then you're Cross Dressing then"

My retort would have been something along these lines...

"Ma'am, are you really that ignorant to different cultures or are you just trying to be rude?" (said in polite, yet direct manner)


Depending what mood I'm in dictates my response. MOST of the time I completely ignore the person b/c I don't have the energy to confront / correct them. WHen I DO have the energy and decide to engage them in conversation, I politely and directly attempt to point out why their comments are rude and offensive without being rude myself (won't stoop to their level).

[ABG0819]

Thank you for all of your suggestions and support...normally my skin is very thick, but because it was supposed to be a professional situation (on her part) I was taken aback. Once she had me on my heels it was all day hill from there. As I said in the OP I just needed to vent. By the way I was so put off by the situation I didn't even look to see who the company was. Maybe I can figure it out by the end of the day and give them a little call just to let them know who they have hired.

Thanks again

Graham

[Mike in Dayton]

I had a similar "if you don't play the pipes then don't wear a kilt" comment at a local restaurant. She just walked away after the comment. She was in her early 20's as most of the waitress staff. Now she just ignores me which is just fine by me. One of her co-workers, Erica, is just the opposite. She never says anything about the kilt but always coming up to me with a big smile and friendly conversation. She never did that before I started wearing the kilt.

Mike

[ForresterModern]

Thank you for all of your suggestions and support...normally my skin is very thick, but because it was supposed to be a professional situation (on her part) I was taken aback. Once she had me on my heels it was all day hill from there. As I said in the OP I just needed to vent. By the way I was so put off by the situation I didn't even look to see who the company was. Maybe I can figure it out by the end of the day and give them a little call just to let them know who they have hired.

Thanks again

Graham

Sounds like you feel all better now. Glad you survived unscathed. And now maybe a wee bit better armed for the next brush with rude ignorance. Be well.

[ABG0819]

Sounds like you feel all better now. Glad you survived unscathed. And now maybe a wee bit better armed for the next brush with rude ignorance. Be well.

Yes, I do feel considerably better, it's amazing what a good night sleep will do for your outlook on life. Hopefully I will be better armed for my next encounter, like I'll have my sgain dubh with me...lol...Not to mention that we are going to a pub in Raleigh to see "My Three Kilts" play. I will get some time around other kilties and those who at least appreciate finer modes of dress.

Graham

[Friday]

"Excuse me are you normally this rude, or are you simply being a bitch because I have better legs than you do and have the nerve to show them off?"

or

Pick up a piece of the literature for her business, and say "thank you for the introduction to the nature of your business and customer service" turn and walk away.