Quote Originally Posted by xman View Post
Since brides I think.


Yeah, that's not true.

I have always found Mr. Gibbs' advice to his son before his wedding in Thornton Wilder's Our Town to be poignant;

"It's the womenfolk who've built up weddings, my boy. For a while now the women have it all their own way. A man looks pretty small at a wedding, George. All those good women standing shoulder to shoulder making sure that the knot's tied in a mighty public way."

Metrobirl, I would simply explain that there will be several colours in the kilt and that they must match well with each other first and foremost, but that the overall effect will be a complimentary one.
well not THIS bride!

Id be upset if my husband didnt help with the planning and put in his two cents on things. Especially since I hate planning parties. Id be happy to just let our families plan it and I will tell them what little things I know I want in it

I guess I never cared about wedding day stuff. I dont know why some women become so rabid about wedding day planning and they have their "perfect wedding" planned out. I only know that I want a few thistles hidden in my wedding bouquet, that I want my husband to wear his traditional clothing, and...thats it. lol. Easy peazy. Everyone else can come up with the other stuff and just run it by us.