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Future Wife and Family have requested I wear a kilt at my wedding. Undecided at first, I'm going along because I think it will be classy and relevant to our Celtic heritage (also highland pipes are a big part of me).
I will be designing my own tartan. I will not be asking my groomsmen to wear kilts.
The only problem is that my wife would like the main color of my kilt to match her bridesmaids colors.
I find this a little perplexing as I don't think the groom should be matching the bridesmaids colors in any other wedding setting. I can't find any photos of wedding parties where this is done. Is it acceptable or is it reducing the kilt to a 'dress' item? Or am I over thinking this?

Thanks in advance for any constructive advice.
-c